Hanging out with Online Girl #2 aka Religious Chick

well...

so she didn't flake. i met her for dinner at a restaurant near where she works.

we had a good time, we stayed and talked for a few hours after we finished eating. we closed the place down, by the time we left they were getting ready to close the place.

how did she look?
-well, i said she could either be an HB7 8 or 9 depending on her face. she is a 7 with a 9 body (she is a former swimmer and her body is niiiice). that's good enough for me, but obviously it would have been better if she was a 9.

as for her personality: her personality is really unusual. she's really religious and conservative. she is either very serious or extremely nervous, awkward and goofy. she is really naive and almost sheltered - but i also gathered that, like a lot of online girls, she has dated many many guys and is pretty picky. she has weird body language and gives you weird looks for no reason. she is very sweet though, and seems to be a very kind, sincere person. i don't get the sense that she is big into game playing, although she was definitely asking me qualifying questions throughout the night - stuff about my dating history, my family and my job.

a couple of things which may be a problem later on: she lives at home with her parents, she drinks only once in a blue moon - she told me the last time she went out to the bars she didn't drink at all, this was more than a month ago, she isn't very sophisticated or cultured, she's a little naive. i get the sense that there is a lot to her that is beneath the surface, whether this is good or bad i don't know.

stuff we talked about: families, stuff she's studying in school, teaching, autistic kids, our dating histories, psychology, computers, travelling, literature, movies, restaurants. one thing she said - she broke up with her ex because he didn't want to get married, he wanted to 'have his cake and eat it too', what does that mean - he wants to have sex but not get married? or he wants to keep dating but not commit? i'm not sure what she meant by that and i didn't ask her to clarify.

probably my biggest blunder of the evening: she mentioned she 'broke up with her ex boyfriend because he wanted to have his cake and eat it too'. i took this to mean he wanted to have sex but not get married. later on we were talking about artificial insemination. she mentioned that if she doesn't find someone she will freeze her eggs and have them artificially imseminated - i said 'you'll be like the virgin mary'. she gave me a weird/bad(?) look like she didn't know what i was talking about. i say 'well you know you mentioned you were a virgin, or i assumed you were a virgin because of what you said about your ex'. she says 'i'm not a virgin'. then i quickly change the subject.

second biggest blunder of the evening: i gave her the 'cube' test. she seemed a little bored with it, or like it came off too much like a 'routine'. i quickly changed the subject.

best thing i did all evening: gave her **** about playing with her food. i came off as really intelligent to her also.

i tried to get her to go to a club with me afterwards, but she said 'some other time it's getting late i have work'. i was like, that's cool whatever.

sat across a table from her all night, i couldn't do any kino hardly. at the end of the night when we parted ways i started chewing some gum because i decided to go for a kiss. i lean over give her a kiss on the cheek and tell her 'call me sometime' she says 'you call me too'. then we part ways.

i'm not sure if the kiss on the cheek was a good idea - she gave me a weird look afterwards, but then again i noticed she was giving weird looks throughout the night, she's really hard to read. when i kissed her she did say 'wow nice breath'.

i'm not like, bowled over or anything, but she is nice and cute and i definitely wouldn't mind dating her and/or having sex with her repeatedly. i'm not sure what my next move will be, probably call her in a few days.

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if i didn't believe this before, one thing i am absolutely certain of now --

YOU CANNOT HIDE YOUR INNER GAME.

you know how, great guitar players can sense someone is a great guitar player after hearing him play just a few notes? the same way they can sense an amateur guitar player after just a few notes?

women can tell a real man - someone who is on his path, who is confident, in control of his emotions, has a clear sense of ethics and personal boundaries, etc. - by just talking to you. i know this because, tonight i felt like i was doing really well at being upbeat and a lively conversationalist, i also tried to slip in as much humor as i could.

and, despite this, she looked at me a couple of times tonight and said things like:

'you look sad, like you have the weight of the world on your shoulders'

you can't hide your inner game. i hope i had enough game tonight to carry me through, i think it went well but who knows. we shall see...