The Shins - Phantom Limb

This song will remind me about Jennifer, now, and saying goodbye to one of my oldest friends. I'm going to miss her again.

Salsa, looming large on the horizon

JCB dragged me out to 720 the other week, I forgot to write about this. 720 is a huge club downtown, it's 5 levels, with a different stle of music on every level. He knows this website where you can register to get on the guest list for free. There are even salsa lessons and open bar til 11. The place was really loud. I hadn't done any approaches in a while, and I wound up doing I think 2 sets that night. One was this new opener - not really an opener, just an idea I had where I would pretend like I was Vince Vaughn in Swingers. So I walk up to this 2 set of latina chicks and act in this really exaggerated hip guy persona:

(pointing to JCB) Hey. See this guy? That's the guy *behind the guy*.
(they nod their heads)
JCB steps in, and proceeds to do his thing, whatever that is.
Every once in a while I interject with a or a 'you're money', then walk away.

So that wasn't really a full approach, more of an assist and a experiment in trying out the persona of Vince Vaughn.

I also do a half assed one on this short hair hottie, I think I started with 'Do you know where the Darkroom is?' then segued into 'you see this guy? he's the guy behind the guy blah blah blah' then 'can you help me learn these salsa moves?' She giggled a few times but it was really half assed, plus I was way drunk.

This was a couple of weeks ago. That club is worth trying again. It is a little different type of sarging environment because it gets so loud after a certain time that you can't talk, so you have to dance. I have to get used to this new non-verbal type of sarging. This one dude Jack we met at the club was basically just grinding on girls and spinning them around on the dance floor - he's also a semi decent dancer, I think it also helped that he was drunk off his gourd. JCB and this dude Jack knew how to work it - they would really work the kino on the dance floor. You better know how to dance at that place - it's all about the latinas and being a smooth dancer. Needless to say, I'm a shitty dancer. JCB has taken some salsa lessons in the past. I may go there early next time to sit in on these free salsa lessons they give at around 10, before the place gets really crowded. Did i mention they have open bar til 11? Nice. JCB tried gaming a two set - fat and ugly chick and an ok looking but really slutty chick. The slutty chick didn't like him, but the fat one did. He was so frustrated that he wanted to leave early. The next week he tells me he went back, and met some woman who just got divorced from her husband and was from out of town, and he went back to her friend's place and sexxed her. I wouldn't be surprised if JCB has some type of venereal disease by now.

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Old flame might be back

Those of you who have followed this blog since its inception will remember the case of the Attention Whore French Chick. Well guess what?

It was almost a year ago when we met on a personals site. She was damn hot, probably a 9. I was AFC as hell when I went out with her, in fact she's the reason I started reading about the game.

We went out a couple of times. It is a long story what happened between us. I was really in at one point, we fooled around on the first date - but after the first date I started getting really bad oneitis for her and I ruined it by becoming really AFC. It ended like this:

we were on the phone and she said something insulting to me, I forget what it was. This snapped me out of my AFC-ness, I realized that this girl was disrespecting me and I got really pissed. I guess she thought since I was a huge AFC she could say whatever she wanted to me. I slammed the phone down on her and never spoke to her again. That was almost a year ago.

I have not been back to that dating site in a long time, ever since I started going out in the field and approaching. I came back last month, because it is cold out and I don't go out as often as I did last year, so I have been doing some online game to make up for it. I took my profile off invisible so that people can see I am online. Today I look and it shows that another person had added me to their favorites list - and it was this girl.

I added her to my favorites list, but I haven't messaged her. Should I message her, or leave her alone? God I'd really like a second chance with her, I know I can do a lot better now.

I feel like Doogie Howser

Every time I sit down to write a new blog entry, trying to come up with a neat summation of the things that happen to me in my life. It is impossible to try to put everything in these nice little boxes. Case in point, AHBRussianGirl. Every time I feel like it is going good with her, it goes downhill again. And I have really bad oneitis for her at this point. I don't know what to do about it except do what I do best - go out and sarge. I have been talking with a couple of girls I closed last month and a couple from online. AHBRussianGirl is not the greatest, I don't understand why I have it so bad for her. But these girls I'm talking to right now - except one - are not as good as her. I have to GFTOW. It's the only way I'm going to get over this oneitis. I can't believe I have oneitis for AHBRussianGirl, I never would have expected that. She is not that bright, a single mother for Christ's sakes, and can be extremely bitchy. Her face isn't even that great. You know what it is? She has one of the most rocking bodies I've ever laid my eyes on. Wow. That ass.

Happy New Year PUAs!

I'd like to send a shout out to my playaz all over the world. We'll be keeping it real in 2007, G.

I was wrong about HBRussianGirl

I was wrong about HBRussianGirl. It was not over that night, I just thought it was. What happened was that I didn't call her for a week and then she started calling me and emailing me and such. Then we started dating again, it has been more than a month and we spent Christmas and New Year's Eve together.

And that is how I found myself waking up on New Year's Day with a hot naked blonde chick in bed with me. I will elaborate more on this girl - I don't have time right now.

250 Approaches - and your boy closes again

I set a six month goal of hitting my first 250 approaches sometime in July. I have not been going out as much the past couple of months - I've been trying to work on my career and finances more, get back in touch with my hobbies of programming and music and whatnot. So I was at 242 approaches for a month or two. Two weeks before Christmas, I went to a holiday party at this club called Trace with JCB, and I got 8 approaches in that night. My last approach was a number close - some redhead chick whom I went out for coffee with a week later and decided I didn't like. And that ends the saga of my first 250 approaches. Looking back, it has been a life changing endeavour. I have had some great times with friends, faced some difficult personal issues that I have been avoiding for a long time, learned a lot about myself. I like myself a lot more now, and am a lot more confident. I've also met some great women and had my way with them. I started this blog as a way of documenting my first 250 approaches, now that that's over with I've decided to continue it. More on that later...

250 approaches